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Opening Doors, Opening Hearts

Opening Doors, Opening Hearts

How to Have Deeper Connections There is a quote from Richard Bach: “ The opposite of loneliness is not togetherness, it’s intimacy.” I believe it’s absolutely true, but it takes work. We cannot change what happened before, but we have a choice to do things differently in every new
14 Mar 2025 1 min read
On a Date

On a Date

We met by a lake on a hot summer evening. I often go there alone. This time, though, it felt all different. Our time together painted this familiar place with a pink, dreamy glow amplifying everything I like about it. We walked around the lake but then got lost in
17 Feb 2025 1 min read
Deep Rest

Deep Rest

Being at peace makes me think of acceptance. It means surrendering and admitting to things I cannot change now. It's not easy to get to this point today. There is constant pressure to do, achieve, and get somewhere. We face schedules, obligations, and promises. A world where we
10 Feb 2025 3 min read
Bed rotting

Bed rotting

Have you ever stayed in bed scrolling your phone for hours? Whether it was self sabotage or self care, this article might be for you. What is Bed Rotting The topic happens to be a social media trend nowadays. The word rotting certainly has a negative connotation. Yet bed rotting
03 Feb 2025 3 min read
Shame, the troublemaker

Shame, the troublemaker

It’s an emotion everyone can feel. It’s relatable, yet so easy to judge. Shame is an incredibly complex emotion that goes beyond simply feeling embarrassed. It makes us behave in ways that create even greater tension in ourselves. It makes us hide certain details about us in the
19 Jan 2025 2 min read
How to Become More Resilient

How to Become More Resilient

Navigating The Unexpected As we progress in life and discover new paths, we may need to recalibrate at times. The flow of life is cyclical. Once we worked our way through one challenge, there will be many more. All is well, as long as we are mostly moving forward. As
15 Jan 2025 2 min read
Better Self, Better Tomorrow

Better Self, Better Tomorrow

The Night Time Self-Checkin Routine What goes through your mind before you drift off to sleep? On better days, I like to think of the positive experiences I had throughout my day. But some days hold memories I’d rather avoid. Dwelling on these isn’t the best way to
06 Jan 2025 1 min read
Fall, Shift

Fall, Shift

Moments of Epiphany I heard the crunch of the dry mud under my feet. My shoes crushed it powdery as I marched forward in the forest. The silence echoed the still life of the forest resonating with the numbness inside of me. Cheerful couples walked by. Their laughter plucked on
26 Dec 2024 3 min read
Find the Secret to Your Creativity

Find the Secret to Your Creativity

Are you brave enough to dive deep? I read in “Big Magic” by Elizabeth Gilbert that we must find our hidden treasure deep within ourselves. We need to live boldly, like the pearl divers, who dive in deep waters hoping to find some precious pearls. This reminds me of the
24 Nov 2024 2 min read
My Journey Towards Self-Growth Through the Pages I Read

My Journey Towards Self-Growth Through the Pages I Read

My Guide to Make Reading a Feel-Good Habit Oddly enough, my earliest reading memory is of my dad immersing me in Baron Munchausen’s fantastic adventures. He made me read aloud to him before school in the mornings. I vividly remember the red cover and the small illustrations. At the
14 Nov 2024 4 min read
The Flight that Changed my Mind about Falling

The Flight that Changed my Mind about Falling

Unplanned Detour for Unpacking the Turbulence Within A few years ago, I was on a plane. On this flight, I was heading towards the sunshine. A solo adventure long overdue. It was my chance to escape the recent challenges clouding my life. I felt excited about this journey but a
11 Nov 2024 3 min read
Aching Lovers of the Sky

Aching Lovers of the Sky

We Are the Stars of Our Beautiful Connections As I watch the Sun and the Moon sharing the sky, weaving stories around themselves, I imagine them as lovers who are forever bound by a deep love. Yet they cannot be together because of the nature of their existence. Every day
05 Nov 2024 1 min read
Welcoming Inner Peace

Welcoming Inner Peace

When There is a Storm Within “Isn’t it odd. We can only see our outsides, but nearly everything happens on the inside.” — Charlie Mackesy I watch out of my window. Thick, silver snow paints the scene. I gaze at the glitter surface as it's slowly becoming ordinary
14 Oct 2024 1 min read
The Power of the Examined Self
Self Improvement

The Power of the Examined Self

Reframing Self- Improvement Just think about it. Is it fair to expect the other person to be honest with you when you aren’t doing the same to yourself? Examine your Self — it’s easier said than done, right?There are many road blocks that you can come across in
30 Mar 2024 5 min read
Others Help You Grow

Others Help You Grow

Your Connections reveal who you are Without introspection you won’t feel revelation, relief or empowerment. You won’t see your biases and other blockages of your self- improvement. You lose a lot and win a false sense of strong self. That is why self-discovery is so essential. “And you?
24 Mar 2024 2 min read
In Silence, We Sat Together

In Silence, We Sat Together

About Empathy “Empathy comes from the Greek empatheia — em (into) and pathos (feeling) — a penetration, a kind of travel. It suggests you enter another person’s pain as you’d enter another country, through immigration and customs, border crossing by way of query: What grows where you are? What are
11 Mar 2024 2 min read
How to Find the Best Life Coach for Yourself

How to Find the Best Life Coach for Yourself

Finding your ideal coach is an intimate adventure. It is a connection about shared vulnerability and deep progress. A subtle shift can be a great deal that can change so much in the quality of our lives. So, choosing the right coach is not as simple as it may seem
02 Feb 2024 3 min read
The Recipe of a Nourishing Life

The Recipe of a Nourishing Life

I just finished a phone call with a friend of mine, who has been feeling unmotivated lately. We talked about what changes she made to get through this. She mentioned how she started cooking heartwarming meals and realised it makes her feel so much better. She noticed that cooking is
13 Jan 2024 5 min read
What  I Found Through the Process of Creating

What I Found Through the Process of Creating

How self-doubt and excuses affected my creativity? I wondered about a life without play and creativity. What is a life like without them? I believe such a life is sad, joyless and boring. Perhaps it’s different for everyone, but it is definitely lacking.  I’ve been planning to start
01 Jan 2024 1 min read
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